Ok so long story short I can't access the buddyauth. Ive tried to get the email changed because i switched everything to a new e-mail address because I no longer have access to my original one. Without the e-mail address I dont know what else I can do for proof of ownership. This is now the 4th time I've attempted to figure this out. Hopefully something can be done this time.
you need to e-mail support. no one on the forums has access to fix that for you. support@thebuddyforum.com
E-mailing was a waste of time. they're not very helpful to be quite honest. I figured it out though. Thanks anyways.